True love without chains of addiction

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Flying free into the light


One day, that you may remember, the darkness closed your mind. It was perhaps in your childhood, or when it awakened in you an enigmatic desire for new pleasure. Your body seemed suitable for everything, you were flying in the wind and you felt good. Why did you stop feeling the same after some experiences? Little by little, anxiety and fear enveloped you. Anger and frustration became your friends. A black tar and sludge tarpaulin prevented you from flying.

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Accept your ugly situation

Image after image, violent scenes of raw humanity. Women and men paraded naked into nothingness. You didn't want to play anymore, reading made you tired, the poor family cat called from a corner without you paying any attention. You were only entertained by that theft of intimacy. Everything was about what you didn't dare to mention, except with some accomplice. 

More and more scenes demanded your presence. Where was your desire for freedom, your artificial and immediate paradise? You were on the ground with your wings dirty and muddy. And, accept it, not everything was involuntary. Accept that you were warned, accept that you heard your heart cry out more than once. Accept it without sterile recriminations or pessimism. 

You have already decided to ask for help. You have seen in others what you thought was only your problem. You have discovered that there are more than bodies. You are beginning to feel that it is worthwhile to love and be loved, that others are not objects to be used and thrown away. There are good and healthy ways to have fun and enjoy yourself! You are able to talk and you are listened to. You notice a new force coming into you.

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Seek help to fly again

Why didn't your rulers do anything to protect you? They allowed the waters of your childhood to become dirty. They allowed money-grubbers to control your instincts and your dreams. Your anger at such hypocrisy is understandable: scandal after scandal covered by fictitious immunity. Daily crimes, women, men and children thrown to the games' stalls by the usual powerful ones. The dance around the golden pig.

And what happened to your parents? No doubt they couldn't or didn't know how to do more. How many difficulties they must have had or are having themselves. Perhaps you left the nest long ago, and even today you are still bleeding from a wound. You know that you can forgive, you know that you can love, you know that you worth a lot, although perhaps they never told you so. And forgiving and all this does not mean forgetting.

But don't get distracted. Concentrate on your project. If you change you can change the world. If you fly your example will become light and attractive. Your pain of yesterday will be an experience of flight and thrust for many. You understand better why you fell into that pit. Everything makes sense. You do not forget the past. You look to the future with optimism focusing on the present: a present of love.

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Understand and fly with others


It has been a while, and not without effort, that you can fly again. Now you are more cautious. Long distances are made short by flying with others. All together in formation, with someone who sets the pace and the route. If you get tired they help you. Many wings beat in unison. Each one looks ahead and forges his own destiny. It is your path and your goal.

The rumors of a field in spring sound in your ears again. Light streams through the clouds, the black of your soul is illuminated. There is beauty and truth everywhere. Your heart, which like a cold crystal had become foggy inside, is filled with warmth and strength. Love warms your heart, unclogs it, and you feel like crying out: it can be done!

Psychological and spiritual maturity, follow a joyful path without addictions, cut out pornography, Wenceslas Vial

Boost your spirit and cry out: it can be done!


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